Everyone knew that one or two kids in high school that stuck to themselves and wore nothing but black. They wanted to be loners and stand out,,,didn’t want to fit into he norm. Well lucky for them there are so many other like that and as they got older they were able to be different with a bunch of people just like them.  Of course wouldn’t that be like being normal within your group and just once again fitting in which is what you were trying to avoid in the first place??  So confusing.